San Mateo, CA

Therapy in San Mateo, CA

San Mateo is one of the Peninsula's most established cities -- a community with genuine neighborhood character, a mix of long-term residents and newer arrivals, and the same underlying mental health pressures as the broader Bay Area without the tech-campus monoculture of its southern neighbors. The people here are navigating demanding careers, family obligations, and the specific exhaustion of trying to maintain a full life in one of the most expensive regions in the country. Therapy is where the things that do not fit anywhere else in that life get actual attention.

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Marcus Ghiasi is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist offering telehealth therapy to San Mateo adults and Peninsula residents. Sessions are Wednesday through Friday from anywhere in California. IFS is the primary framework -- working with the internal parts that drive anxiety, self-criticism, relationship patterns, and the burnout that accumulates when the demands on a person consistently exceed their capacity to recover. EMDR addresses trauma and the experiences that affect current functioning regardless of how well they are understood intellectually. San Mateo residents access sessions from home without commuting. A free 15-minute consultation is the starting point with no commitment required.

Therapy in San Mateo, CA

San Mateo's community has a stability and rootedness that distinguishes it from the more transient parts of the Peninsula -- and that stability creates its own specific psychological dynamic. Long-term residents navigating the question of whether the life they built here is still the one they want. Families whose children have left and who are reckoning with what comes next. Adults at midlife who have achieved significant goals and find themselves in unexpected emotional territory. These transitions do not always announce themselves as crises, but they are significant, and individual therapy is particularly well suited to working with them directly.

IFS is the primary framework because it maps internal experience with a precision that is useful for the full range of what San Mateo adults bring into therapy. The part that has been responsible for everything and is now exhausted. The part that wants change but is afraid of what change would cost. The part that carries old grief or old anger that has not had a real outlet. The part that is still performing competence while something underneath is quietly not okay. Getting to know these parts -- understanding what they are protecting and what they need -- tends to produce movement that willpower and insight alone do not.

San Mateo's proximity to San Francisco and the broader Peninsula tech economy means many residents are absorbing significant career and financial pressure even when they are not working in tech directly. The cost of maintaining a home and family in San Mateo County is real and creates chronic financial anxiety that affects relationships, decision-making, and daily functioning in ways that are often attributed to other causes. Therapy works with the full picture rather than treating symptoms in isolation from the conditions producing them.

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IFS parts work reaches the internal dynamics driving anxiety and relationship patterns at a level that insight and coping strategies alone do not

EMDR processes trauma and stuck experiences at the nervous system level -- particularly effective for anxiety, PTSD, and patterns that have not shifted with previous therapy

San Mateo's mix of professionals, families, and long-term residents is reflected in an approach that adapts to the whole person rather than a specific demographic

Marcus works with adults 18 and older across the full range of presenting concerns including anxiety, depression, trauma, burnout, grief, and relationship patterns

Private pay with superbills for PPO reimbursement -- $210 for 45 minutes, $280 for 60 minutes

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What to Expect in Therapy

Therapy starts with a free 15-minute consultation -- a direct conversation about what you are dealing with and whether working together makes sense. The first full session goes deep on your specific situation and begins mapping the internal parts and patterns creating the most difficulty. Sessions are 45 or 60 minutes via secure telehealth video, available Wednesday through Friday from home or anywhere in California.

IFS sessions are structured and focused. Each session works with specific parts of the internal system -- getting curious about them, understanding what they are protecting, and building a more functional relationship with the whole. The work is not about producing insight for its own sake. It is about producing change in how you relate to yourself and the people around you. EMDR sessions process specific experiences that the nervous system has not fully resolved.

Most clients notice meaningful change within 12 to 20 sessions. For clients navigating life transitions or midlife reckoning, the work often produces a clarity about what actually matters and what needs to change that is difficult to access without a structured external process. The goal is always concrete change, not indefinite management.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can therapy help with a major life transition like children leaving home, career change, or midlife identity questions?

Yes, and these are among the presentations individual therapy is best suited for. Life transitions destabilize the internal structures that organized a person's sense of themselves, which is why they often produce more distress than the external circumstances seem to warrant. IFS maps what is being lost and what needs to be built in its place, which tends to make the transition significantly less disorienting.

I have been in therapy before and found it helpful for a while but the changes did not last. What is different here?

When therapeutic gains do not last, it usually means the work addressed symptoms without reaching the parts of the internal system that were producing them. IFS works with those parts directly. EMDR processes the underlying experiences at the level where they are stored. Both approaches tend to produce more durable change than conversation-based therapy for this reason.

Do you work with grief and loss specifically?

Yes. Grief is one of the most undertreated presentations in therapy because it is often expected to resolve on its own timeline without direct attention. It frequently does not. Individual therapy for grief works with the specific loss -- what was lost, what it meant, what has not been able to be said -- in a way that moves the process forward rather than just providing support while it continues.

What are the session rates?

Sessions are $210 for 45 minutes or $280 for 60 minutes. Bayside does not accept insurance directly but provides superbills after every session for potential out-of-network reimbursement through your PPO plan. HSA and FSA funds can be used.

How to Get Started

Getting started is simple. Click the button below to schedule a free 15-minute consultation, or use the contact form to reach out with questions. I typically respond within 1-2 business days.

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